Read: Mixed Emotions, I'm Back in the Saddle Again! and Falling in Love All Over Again.......
Sorry, I don't know how to link to those threads....
In a nutshell, Yes H was hellbent on D. I finally stopped worrying about H and OW and D and everything else and started worrying about me. I hospitalized myself and got my meds straight. While I was in the hospital, H moved home as no one was living there. H was sick of living with his parents. H was still drinking and partying while I was gone. When I got back I told him no alcohol in the house or he could leave again. I faced up to the legal charges pending and got my legal situation straight. I started biking and going to church. I pretty much changed my whole self...into a new attractive, less dependent new woman. H didn't want to lose $$$$ in a D, so he stuck around rather unwillingly at first, but then more and more willingly. H fell back in love with me and I fell back in love with him.
