Thanks, I'll check it out. The main thing was that H used to stress big time over medical debts and I always felt bad as they were my debts and I don't work outside of the home. Now, however, H is making an effort to let me know that I don't have to feel guilty about this. H is being kinder, and more loving. It's a good thing. We aren't in terrible debt. Nothing we can't pay off in a year or so.