Great idea! I got up with H this morning and made us coffee and we stood out on his deck for a few minutes drinking coffee and chatting a bit before going to work. He mentioned that his place was a pig sty and I really wanted to say, yeah, it sure is--but I didn't say anything. It's his house and he makes the rules there. I don't need to control. He has been teasing me more, which is more like his old self. I do want to try to be a little less available though and that is kind of a scary thought right now.