My husband just called to say,"Hi." This prompted me to start this thread. I'd like others to join in and post about how they and their partners are piecing together their marriages together!
It took a while before my husband turned around and started really piecing. He took "babysteps" while I was really db'ing. However, once he felt that things had really turned around between us, he started piecing, too. He doesn't call it piecing and doesn't know squat about d'bing. It's just that my actions have caused reactions in him. Good behaviour brings about positive responses, after a while. This doesn't always mean a marriage can be saved...it does mean that most relationships can be improved, though.
I am a totally different person today than I was when I first found this website. My relationship has grown, changed, evolved. It's better than ever.
