Great new forum! I have two friends who remarried their ex-spouses post-D, one after 1 year, one after 5 years of separate lives. Learned from both that it was very important to GAL, and by doing so, to capture enjoyment of life and to let go or work through any resentments.
For the WAS who thinks D is the simple solution to their troubles or that the LBS is the source of their distress, it may take this "school of hard knocks" approach to learn that life is always a mixture of pleasure and pain, and this is not brought about by one other person, but just is how life is. I believe in the ability of GAL to remind the WAS of their original attraction to the LBS, as well as its ability to shape new attractions.
I'd like to see a posted version of that article as well!
