I know what you mean Vee. I am waiting for something from the courts telling me my date. I know my L had to go to set dates but I don't want to call him to find out. I probably should but I am avoiding it and don't look forward to getting my mail each day as I don't believe in all of this either for moral reasons mostly and for personal/selfish reasons as well - same as you - also - nothing is irreconcilable if we would both want to work on it and in my case things really weren't that bad to begin with I don't think. All I can think is that the new GF gives good BJs - what else could be the attraction (is that nasty?)
