I have found that simply listening and validating are two of the absolute best things you can do. Sounds like you did a good job.

I'm not sure if I would suggest to him about moving back in just yet. That's a big step...it sounds like you haven't even discussed really reconciling. Maybe you could mention to him that you are going to be looking for a new place...maybe invite him to come with you...but leave it at that.

[color:"purple"]Nevanna[/color]