Quote: It's part of the reason I asked "what does desire look like". I need to revisit that thread before it scrolls off. I asked because the phrase that keeps coming up is "I want them to want me" and I'm still not sure how that would display itself to all those longing for it. kwim?
I was kind of wondering if maybe the answer I posted on that thread was too PC. Maybe I was just saying what I thought someone who was motivated, loving, yet still kind of self-identified LD would want to hear. Did you actually want to know what an HD woman might do if she was overcome with desire? I could tell you some of the things I might do but those things wouldn't necessarily serve. So here's the desire analogy of a woman who finds sex a spiritual experience. For me, being overcome with desire is like someone feeling the need to testify at a gospel church. Some people might talk in tongues, some might break into song, some might raise their hands to the sky and some might just fall on their knees and praise Jesus. OTOH sometimes it's not all that spiritual and it's more like I'm a hungry she-wolf gorging myself on fresh meat. Hmmm...it doesn't really sound all that appealing does it? No wonder my H is LD .
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver