Quote: How do you remember to do those spontaneous shows of desire, if it is not your body driving it?
Because sex/desire is not all hormones.
Because I perceive the above as spontaneous shows of affection.
And because I settled it in my head and chose to.
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Did you always remember it and just didn't do it, out of resentment?
And can you be as specific as possible? I need to, uh, relay it to someone very dear to me.
I don't think it was a matter of remembering as much as it was the relationship breaking to the point that I had little interest in being affectionate. Or caring.
I have to head out for a while, but may have more thoughts on this later.