Quote: It's part of the reason I asked "what does desire look like". I need to revisit that thread before it scrolls off. I asked because the phrase that keeps coming up is "I want them to want me" and I'm still not sure how that would display itself to all those longing for it. kwim?
Yes I do. I think HDs want their mates to be as motivated by horniness and sexual desire as they are, and when they aren't it causes all sort of trouble. I speak from experience. want me means show the same level of enthusiasm as me. Just to be there and maybe just enjoying the closeness isn't cutting it when measured against this standard. Caused me a lot of grief until I accepted that my wife isn't a female me. But, I plan on having a good time anyways, however we can.
