This is great - you guys have already gotten me excited to try to wait up for my husband tonight. Which is really saying something in that he gets home at midnight and I get up at 5:00 a.m.

Honeypot - can I ask what you mean by goals? You don't have to get too personal, just maybe an example so I can get the general idea.
But at least it's getting me out of the rut of "poor me" syndrome. Okay, this may be obvious to everyone else but me BUT, so, where do I start. Maybe that's half "our" problem is I don't know exactly "what" I'm asking it would seem huh. I say give me more passion, well of course he's fumbling in the dark because I haven't given him any clues!!!!!! Holy Moses!

Okay, so I'm thinking be waiting on the couch when he comes home with sexy nighties and candles lit. Okay - he'll want to shower first (I'de probably prefer that too hee/hee!). I think I need to get that Cosmo out for some suggestions huh! I'm thinking...... what, feathers for carassing his back? I'm feeling lost here but I'm excited about the potential! I just hope he doesn't shoot me down.