Quote: an earlier comment about him not wanting to bring back past thoughts (childhood) might be accurate also - I had never even thought of that. But he does confuse me with that because in the past when I have tried to broach the subject to a little more passion in bed he made the comment "I KNOW what you want", like I was asking him to do something terrible. I was just trying to get him to spice it up a bit.
Out of curiosity...have you sat him down and talked to him about it? You know...when he says "I KNOW what you want"...ask him..."do you really? What do you think I want?" When he avoids answering it, as he's likely to do...ask him again to tell you what he thinks you want, sincerely. See if he can really tell you, to see how accurate he is. My guess is, he's waaaaay off in his own mind.
