I don't know if H has used that exact term but whenever I mention I'de like to work on "us" he just says he's perfectly happy. He says his only complaint with me is $. And by that he is saying I don't get my receipts to him fast enough and I spend too much at Walmart (however, I think he is living in 2005 with 1985 prices in his head personally, we've gone to Walmart together before and he's always floored at the checkout even when he's put everything in the cart). He always comments on what a good mom I am. To me and to others.
I think he's just programmed to be content - you know, with his upbringing. Nothing is "wrong" with us so he doesn't see any need to work on it. So how do I get across I need some romance to feel like getting back in the bedroom to even begin working on getting the passion back there. Boy do I need help huh!
