Quote: So how do I guide him into a more "okay quit playing it safe" ML?
Well, that's what I was getting at with my question of What do you do in those situations?
Do you whisper naughty things to him? Do you let him know you like it harder, faster, whatever? Do you cop a feel when he's doing the dishes? Do you flirt with him?
I had to discover the hard way that I wanted my H to be more aggressive but I wanted him to just know that this was what I wanted. I didn't want to have to..gulp..go FIRST and do it to him! Part of it was that he had me up on such a pedestal that I couldn't hardly move. I had to fight with him to let me get OFF that damn thing and get on with the process of living my life with him. Things are much better now. I have to be the person who's least likely to be put on a pedestal but there he was, doing it anyway.
Is this your situation and, if so, are you prepared to blow that outta the water and let him see the real you?
