To create a sexual atmosphere. Well if it's after the kids are in bed for the night I put on a sexy nightie, light some candles. So how do I guide him into a more "okay quit playing it safe" ML? there actually is a good article in Cosmo about this type of thing I just didn't get to finish reading it yet - kids and all.
My HD partner in MB is anyone from faceless stranger to ex-. For the most part when I dated I think I used to be a "conquerer" you know, I'd have sex with someone and then loose interest. Maybe that's part of my problem now.
And I'm okay with my past, it's made me a stronger person - I think I can handle just about anything with the exception of someone mistreating my children - that I feel VERY strongly about.
