HappyMomo,
So sorry for your pain, but you came to the right place. The members of this board have much wisdom to share.

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I came from a VERY disfunctional home by all standards and was desparately seeking to have that perfect family.




Do you feel the disparity between your upbringing and your spouses? Does this come into play when you are relating sexually?


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He says I'm "no maintenance" (and that's the way he treats me)




Does your husband enjoy a no maintenance wife?

Just a couple of thoughts to get things going.


I don't mind the sun sometime The images it shows I can taste you on my lips And smell you in my clothes Cinnamon and Sugar And softly spoken lies You never know just how you look Through someone elses eyes BHS-"Pepper"