You aren't alone, as you will undoubtedly see on here. After reading your post you do seem like you are in a difficult position...it's never easy having the in-laws living that close by and having children sleeping with you can complicate the situation as well, but as you will see there are others on here as well who do that too.
Could you clarify some of the approaches you've taken to try to get your H to understand your needs? Also, try to go into some detail on how your H approaches sex w/you. What's his idea of a sexually fullfilling R? Does he ever fulfill his needs in other ways? i.e. porn, MB'ing?
Do you think he views you as a mother and not a W?
