Here's my advice. Do not, I repeat, do not ask advice of family or friends. "Running it up the flagpole" isn't going to help. Your best bet? Look up the Rejoice Ministeries site, talk to a professional or your church pastor/priest.
RokTop made some valid points. Oh, put your emotions away, they will only get in the way of dbing.
When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.
