please would someone give me some advice if they get a moment. I am really confused. I have been receiving advice from friends and other sites I post on and its all really confusing. They are all telling me that I do not stand a chance until the OW is out of the picture completely and that I am just kidding myself its going to work if my H comes home and he is still in contact with her. Yes, I kind of agree but I just do not think its should be me that pressurises him into this decision - that will just make him run to her even more. The decision to end their friendship must come from him surely?
