MrsNOP and I wouldn't mind being of service to nicegal. In fact, we would like to help.
The problem right now, is that barney would know who it was coming from. I am positive that barney is not happy with me or MrsNOP. That doesn't bother us, but we are likely of limited usefulness to her at this point.
I do want to say that I have some experience dealing with active affairs and recovery, but we are not professional counsellors (obviously). Regardless, if nicegal asks for our help, we will give it in whatever form we can. Same goes for barney.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.