nicegal.

This is from me and MrsNOP.

We are so very sorry for you.

This is not the end of the world.

You do have some decisions to make.

You do NOT have to make them right now.

You do whatever you need to do to keep yourself intact and functional until the initial shock wears off.

That includes asking barney to stay somewhere else for a while if it makes you feel safer.

Betrayal is likely to leave you feeling very unsafe.

You do whatever you need to do in order to feel safe.

MrsNOP and I will be checking in here all weekend so that you can talk to us if you need or want to.

God Bless you.
-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.