You do whatever you need to do to keep yourself intact and functional until the initial shock wears off.
That includes asking barney to stay somewhere else for a while if it makes you feel safer.
Betrayal is likely to leave you feeling very unsafe.
You do whatever you need to do in order to feel safe.
MrsNOP and I will be checking in here all weekend so that you can talk to us if you need or want to.
God Bless you. -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.