I just wanted to thank you for what I perceive to be your total honesty. I know that the pain I feel in my heart as a result of my W's rejections and anger is very deep. Fortunately, we were able end any physical confrontations and shouting many years ago, but not before I took a stand. My W still feels that it is acceptable for her to use days-long silence as a weapon.
I'm thinking about you; hopefully God will hear my thoughts.