I am not offended and I do not think it is wrong to have a clear boundary around physical violence. I think it is imperative for the two of you to move forward.
I was suggesting that you find a place to get some solace, help, things thought through. I mean, we on this BB are good virtual pals and all but this is 17 years of serious issues - you NEED some support for yourself. Whether NG changes in the necessary ways or not you need some things for you.
