Did we ever tell you about the time that I told NOP to "Just go get yourself a f*ckbuddy!"?
There's going to be some anger & some sarcasm. You guys aren't perfect. The goal is to start minimizing those and then "cleanup on aisle 9" when the tarpit overflows.
Come back to it when the emotion has cooled a bit (and I don't mean so cold that it has solidified into glacier status).
NG has asked some questions regarding the tone of your days. Perhaps having goals similar to our dear HP's would address the sense you feel pervades your relationship. So, do you think you can come up with some input?
I know sometimes it feels like you're saying the same things over and over. The really weird thing about humans is that we can keep NOT getting it and then suddenly it clicks. Maybe this is that time.
