Thank you, Sherry and Sage. I know it's good that H is sharing his thoughts with me. I even thanked him and told him how much I appreciate him opening up and talking to me.
About backing up and giving him space, I have been doing this and I want to give him his space, but like I said in the previous post, I feel like I'm getting mixed signals from H. I feel like he wants out, so I have been leaving him alone and still being friendly when he's around or we talk. Then I feel like he wants to be close to me, but I'm not sure if I should approach him. And how? He can be content one moment and the next moment he has a look of misery or uncertainty on his face. I thought I'm supposed to get H to pursue me, but at times I feel like I have to pursue him, but if I do, what if it backfires? What if that's not what H wants? I just don't know! My head is so scrambled right now. I don't even know if any of what I'm saying makes any sense at all. I'm so sorry. I'm just a total mess now, and I don't know what to do. I feel like H wants something from me but then I feel like he doesn't.
I can hear H pulling up now, I will post about last night later.
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
