Hey soccermom! Do you have your own thread? I think I've seen you post on a couple of other threads and it's a good idea to just have your own, and post your sitch there, and this way it's all in one place so people can read up on your sitch and advise you, without hijacking other people's threads (which I've done on occasion).
When he asked, "to cuddle?", why not just tell him what you want instead of saying, "forget it!" For all you know, maybe he didn't want to initiate something because he wasn't sure if that's what you wanted. After all, you had stormed off on him earlier, so maybe he wasn't sure... but it's better communication to simply ask for what you want. As for what was really going through his mind, who really knows?
I posted this story which I had heard and it really goes to show why we shouldn't try to analyze things like what other people are thinking. I think it's a cute story, myself:
Roger and Elaine, were driving home one night, when Elaine said to Roger, "Honey, we've been together for six months now... where is our relationship headed?" Roger just stared ahead and didn't respond.
"Oh God!", thought Elaine. "I shouldn't have brought that up! He's thinking I'm pressuring him into making a long term commitment right now, and he's probably thinking of all the reasons why he can't commit. Maybe he doesn't really love me? He must know that I love him! I wish he'd say something, tell me that he's thinking about us being together too. But he's not saying anything to me because maybe he doesn't want to get hurt again. He's probably thinking I'll hurt him, but I wouldn't hurt him! Never! That look on his face, I can tell he's torn and doesn't know what to say. I shouldn't have said a thing!"
Meanwhile, Roger is thinking, "Six months? Has it been that long? Oh damn, that's about the last time I had the oil changed. I forgot to have it changed since then. I wonder... if I get to the garage early enough tomorrow, if they can do a quick oil change and get me out so I'm not late for work?"
