What happens now?

[sage]

Ok, this is probably a dumb question. I know I'm not supposed to say "ILY", but if H says he needs to hear it from me, is it ok to say it since he's telling me what he wants and needs?

I'm going to chime in here and reiterate what Ellie (kml) said...it's certainly fine and aok to say ILY to h if he is saying it first and even more so if he is telling you what that he needs to hear it from you. Don't go overboard, of course, but try it out and see what response you get.

As for the calls, again, I agree with Ellie. Let go of them for now...and as for the notion that he "lied", well, yah, he did. You could call him on it but it likely won't get you closer to your goal right now, right? Take a bit of a longer view of the sitch and see how things are going a few weeks or longer from now.

Sage