That is so good to hear. Thank you, Ellie and Ohio! The reason I was asking is because H had left several messages throughout the day ending with "ILY"s (I was in and out all day), and in his last one, H said, "Please call me back when you get in. ILY.....I know you haven't been saying it much lately, but I need to hear it from you." Well, I did call him back an hour ago, and I did say "ILY" after he said it again.
Ok, back to the unexplained calls made by H to OW that I discovered 2 days ago. Does anyone have any tips, advice, suggestions, etc (other than staying calm) on how to approach H with this? I have been thinking, and thinking, and thinking about what to say, how to explain why I felt the need to check his cell phone records again. Basically, how can I start this off the right way? H has always had a bit of a short fuse, so I really want to have this thought through before H gets home which will be in 6 days (or even less since some deals fell through).
Thanks for listening and your help.
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown