I think it is good for you to wait and talk to H about the calls. You will have time to think about it and decide a good way to approach him. You will have some cooling off time, too. (I teach and I remember when I student taught-too many years ago LOL--, my mentor said always leave early on report card day , so if parents are upset they have the weekend to cool down before they talk to you on Monday)
Good advice about why we are here and doing what we are doing. I sometimes have to remind myself of that. I guess we all do. There are so many ups and downs on this road we are on.
