I've never gone to any forum to tell my story. How do I do that?

And thanks listening and your input. It truly is nice to know I'm not alone. Do you sometimes feel like by acting nice and loving to your H, that you are "okaying" his communication with the OW? That's the way it feels to me most of the time. Why leave me and the girls if he can still talk to the OW and have us too? I don't want to deliver the ultimatum.....but I'm getting closer to feeling that way. Hang in there to you!!