OK, I don't know what you mean about where my thread is. I'm messageboard illiterate. I wouldn't even know where to begin to be honest. The day he dropped the bomb? The day he decided to stay (which time), the numerous times he's told me he's not talking to her and still does? I just don't get how he can say he WON'T call her or text her and that her texts to him are getting few and far between. How many more times do I believe him and get burned? I guess the fact that he's still here and going to therapy alone and with me, he read DB before I did. But WHY read the book if you can't stop your urge to call her? Does he really not have any self control? OK, now I'm mad. Sorry.
P.S. I'm still contemplating calling her. I know her. Had dinner with her once. The OW is a drug rep that calls on my husband's office. He swears she said she won't ever come in the office unless it's his day off. Yeahh....rigggghhhhttt.