I do have that book already. I've read it a couple times. I even told H about it and told him that I believe it would help if he read it, too. He said he would (that was almost 3 weeks ago), but he has yet to pick it up.

I understand he just wants to move on and forget what's happened. So do I, but it's much easier said than done. I'm sure I don't have to tell you that. I've tried explaining to my H why I need the reassurances, he says he understands and will try to give them. He does call me to "check in" and tells me he loves me. That's good, but I feel I need more. What "more" could possibly be, I don't know. I guess it's just kind of hard to think straight right now after discovering yesterday's new info.


Valerie

"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown

"Piecing is not for the faint of heart." ~ sage