Thanks, soccermom. I'm doing my best to hang in there, too.
My H doesn't get the reassurance thing either. I think he's just so ashamed of what he's done that when and if I bring the OW up, it's as if I'm rubbing his face in it, you know? So even though it's hard, I'm learning to control it more.
My H still shuts his phone off before we go to bed. Don't know if it's because he doesn't want to be bothered by co-workers or if there's a possibility of the OW calling him still. I've tried looking for his phone after he'd go to sleep to turn it on (just in case someone decided to call him), but for the life of me, I cannot find his hiding place! I guess it will take time just like everything else.
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
