I'm not sure what other kind of "evidence" I could possibly come up with. His phone is his lifeline, so to speak. I suppose I could check credit card bills, too. I used to always send out the bills except for the credit card ones. H would go to the bank and take care of those, so I never bothered looking at them. Although I did look at the last one for the month of January. We have 2 cards - one we share, the other is solely his. I noticed he charged a few lunches here and there on his card. This was before reading DR, so I said to him, "Nice. The boys and I get Denny's, and she gets Mimi's Cafe, Johnny Carino's,....." H didn't say a word.
I'm really at a loss here. On one hand, I want to get it over with now. But then again, he's 200 miles away working to support us which I'm so grateful for. On the other hand, I feel like if I wait until he gets back, even if I calmly approach him about this, he may get irritated and not provide any answers for me. He may just get irritated either way. I know I don't want to let this slide. I need and deserve answers. He's told so many lies. It's become almost impossible to decipher the truth from the untruth.
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
