When H found out that I went online to look at his phone records, he did change his password. He didn't know that to get his password, all I had to do was go online, click on "Forget password?", and the company would send a text message to his phone with it. He knows this now. When H changed it, I was very upset, of course! I asked him why he changed his password if he had nothing to hide anymore. H said, "I don't like how just anyone can get into my account that easily." Um...hello! I AM YOUR W! Not just anyone! So finally he said to try "nissan" and if that didn't work then use his SSN because he just happened to forget what he changed it to. For the next few days, I noticed that he was hiding his phone at night and even when he would take a shower! Finally he let it out of his sight one day for 10 minutes (while taking a shower), so I was able to retrieve the new password. Needless to say, it wasn't "nissan" or his SSN. This was all at the beginning of last month. His password has remained the same.
When H was pushing a R talk a week ago, I told him that I may have questions come up from time to time, and all I want from him is to be honest with me. No matter how hurtful, painful, or brutal the truth may be. He said alright, he would do that.
Now. About bringing this up calmly. I can do that, but when? While he's still away and how soon? Or should I wait until he gets home in 10 days?
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
