My boys and I went out to dinner with my family for my mom's birthday this evening. Didn't talk to H since this morning, so he doesn't know. H called the house twice, but obviously I wasn't here. He then called my cell phone twice, but I didn't answer. I heard it ringing, but chose not to answer. When he called the house the 2nd time, he left a message saying, "I guess you don't want to talk to me right now, so.....bye." I haven't called him back and neither has he.
My questions:
1) Should I call H or wait for H to call me? I know someone will probably say, "Let him call you, let him wait, let him guess." My guess is his thoughts right now may be, "Fine. If she won't call me, I won't call her. I'll wait for her to give in."
2) When we do finally talk, what should I say about where I was, what I did, etc? I understand I'm supposed to keep him guessing, but how can I do this when he pretty much knows what I can and can't do since I have the kids all the time? I'm always at home, at the store, or at a relative's house. He knows this!
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
