I dont always get to know why. I may find myself caught up in wondering why something happened while asking myself, What did I do wrong? or Why did this happen to me? If the situation is something I can change, I can plan how to change it. I can look at my options or ask someone elses opinion and ultimately decide what to do. If the situation is one in which I have no control, I might never get to know why it happened. I might have to understand that it just did. When Im wondering why, sometimes the hardest answer to accept is that there isnt one. I wont always understand or be given the reasons for certain situations. I will do my best to accept that sometimes things are the way they are.