WOW..great hike! Kind of funny as I was hiking up the mountainI thought of it is kind of like the rollercoaster ride f my M. It so much fun on the way up, the excitement, the suspense, but the ride down is too fast, not as enjoyable and a lot harder on the body! HEE HEE!
Here's my horoscope for the upcoming week..boy, I couldnt have said it any better myself!
As children, we all play with building blocks. Early in this process we discover that, when creating a tall tower, it is important to have a strong, solid, level base. The same is true of any construction process. Get the foundation right and the rest will be much easier to deal with. Sometimes though, we don't quite realise that we are at the start of something - and that the future depends on what we do next. Or we do realise this... but we are in too much of a hurry to care. Look hard at the precedents you are setting now. Above all else, you need stability.
I have been reading Sage's post from the beginning...sure is taking a while, but so worth it! Here are some things I have gotten out of it so far:
*I need to find the faith that giving my love to H w/out regard for how it comes back to me is good for me and my being *I want H ot feel safe around me. I think this might be a big issue in our M right now. If he felt safe, he would be physically relaxed around me, physically affectionate. *I need to figure out what will make my H feel safe and try things out *Right now I need to be H friend and nothing else *I need to stop focusing on my needs being met and concentrate on his needs!
