What happened was that I aske him to go away with me tomorrow, just for the night. I made a reservation and told him that if he didnt want to go, I would just go by myself, becaue I needed to get away. He then later said, "So what time we leaving in the morning" and I said I thought you didnt want to go and he said, "well you forced me by making the reservation." To which I said, " I said I would go alone, I have no problem with that. The reason I asked you to come is because we just havent been spenging much time together lately, with you being busy with your sports stuff, so I just thought a trip, just the 2 of us would be good for us. I just dont want us to get back to where we were." Then he said, "And just where do you think we are?" I said "I thought things were going well" Then he said, "but I still dont feel anything, and that is why I dont hug and kiss you. And you keep sending me these Marriage things in the email about how to make the marraige work and Im just not there"
And that is where I went into the other stuff from my last post....
Could it be I am pushing too much? I mean, his words dont match his actions. He has been doing so much, but thats when I push for more. What do you suggest??
I think I will just go away by myself tomrrow..I dont want him going just becuz I "forced him to go". I want him to go becuz he wants to....
So yes, I guess that is what happened...I asked for just a little more and he wasnt ready...I guess...Darn good thing I didnt give him that letter I wrote...
