Sage!! So nice of you to stop by! You always have wonderful advice!
Yes, maybe I am pushing too much...but its so hard NOT to sometimes. I have been doing TOO much for him....and when I do this, is when I get upset because I am not getting what I want. Dont get me wrong...my H does SO MUCH for me....but they arent all in my LL, but in his instead.
I think I may be getting lost in "US" again and focusing on him so much and not doing for myself as much, and thats when I get down. I have to remember its not his responsibility to make sure I am happy..its mine!!
Ok, so my 3 positives for the day: 1. H went and bought yard stuff for me when I asked him to. 2. H watched kids for me so I could get supper started. 3. H came and sat outside with kids and I when we were playing outside.
OH, and tonite...I did something for myself...went tanning, did some pilates and took nice bath!!
Oh one more thing...when I do ask H for something that I need, I usually do get it, but what things are ok to ask for?? Kisses? hugs? ILY? Probably not, but maybe things like a movie, or a meal out.....??
