I'm not so amazed at him as I am at you. How do YOU get that old feeling again? I have a hard time imagining feeling that way about H again.

I guess the difference is that your H never left, never had a PA. H asks me if I could imagine having a life together again. I don't want to scare him off with my gut feeling right now. He still hasn't done the one thing that would really matter.

Or, should it not matter if he hasn't broken it off with OW? If I was going to feel THAT way again, would I jump his bones even if he's in a hurry to catch his 9pm phone call from her?

Is the brain the most powerful sex organ and I just have to make up my mind to want to ML with him again?

I know, lots of questions, but between you and sage, I should get some great answers.

Mel

Each experience in life has formed me, become part of me, made me stronger.