Things my H did for me to show me he loves me: 1. helped with kids 2. made supper 3. cleaned up AFTER supper 4. fed dogs 5. Carried on concersations with me
Things I did for H to show him I love him: 1. Scratched his back 2. folded socks, which were left from laundry on sunday (his job) 3. Told him thanks for all the things he did for me today 4. Told him I think he is in great shape...
**Kind of ironic that I do things that I would like for him to do to me. But I am pretty sure that most of the things I do for him are what his needs are. I think I read somewhere that you usually do it that way...you do what you want most...ok, well then I know he loves to have me scratch his back and arm..so touching him, so why does he not touch me??
Note to self...When H asks where I am going and time I am leaving, I get anxious....wonder why he is asking..is it because he is going to contact OW?? But then I think, I ask him the same questions when he is going somewhere and I have no ulterior motive other than just wondering. I have to come to realize that....and just let it go!!
