I guess first I want to post some goals...have just been worrying about everything, not really focusing on certaing things that need to be addressed...
Goals: 1. To be able to communicate my needs to my H without being afraid of his reaction 2. To be able to focus on the present and future, instead of what has happened in the past. 3. To believe that my H is trying to make our M work. 4. To decide what types of affection I need from my H and which ones I can live without. 5. Come to the realization that my H is not a ver affectionate person and there will be some things I am not able to get from him. 6. Be more self-confident in my R 7. Work on communicating concerns when they arise instead of waiting until it gets to a heated arguement.
Thats a start anyways...I am going to post all the positive things that my H does each day, to show me that he loves me and also ways I show him....it will at least give me somewhere to figure out what is working and what is not..and what I am getting and what more I need.
