Well, things are going pretty will in Chez ChaCha. I've been doing a lot of thinking and coming to answers that I need in order to change things. I can't make my H do anything but I can decide to make myself happier. Yesterday, I told H "For our entire marriage I have been trying to be right. I am beginning to realize now it's not about being right anymore." I think he was shocked. So....we are getting closer to our comfortable space (and we ML again last night off-schedule, I might add).
NOW....I'd be much more comfortable if my neighbors had not gotten a new puppy that they insist on leaving outside for hours and a time. Bark...bark...bark. I have the same reaction to her that I do when I hear a tiny baby crying at the supermarket. SOMEONE PICK UP THAT BABY!