chacha said: -------------- Maybe with gentle guidance from each of us we can get to a place where we meet in the middle. I mean that is really what happens in a successful R. It's not who "gives in". It's a process of letting go of your paradyms of a perfect marriage and finding a space where you are comfortable. --------------
I think someone should give the lady a cigar - make that a box full. :-)
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
