Hi, Chacha.

Here is a bit of unorthodox advice for you. Please consider it carefully.

Obviously, your husband has little to no understanding of the female gender. This is not uncommon. Getting something done about it is the hard part.

So, I am going to suggest that you break the "no trade for sex" rule, just this once, for one week.

Here is my proposal.

First step.
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Go and buy this book. "What Women Want Men to Know" by Barbara De Angelis

Step two.
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Make passionate love to your hubby. Do it out of the blue. Just do it. Do it the same day you buy the book.

Step three.
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The day after your lovemaking, hand him the book. Then tell him something like this;

"Hubby, since you like to trade, I will make you a deal. If you will read this book, then tell me about what it says and how it applies to our relationship, in detail, then I will make love to you everyday, for a week. We will then discuss the book again, and see how well we did. After that, we can make a schedule for sex".

Write your requirements on the inside cover of the book so that your husband has no excuse for not having a clear understanding of his part of the 'deal'.

Step four
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Report back here for review.

I think that will get you both into high gear for a decent start, and hopefully have hubby asking for what's next :-)

You can teach an old dog new tricks, you just have to make it worth his while.

How about it?
-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.