Just kind of wondering, lets say your husbands actually improved and became romantic, thoughtful, caring guys. Then how would you ladies actually change into HD women? Not trying to be nasty, just curious as to what YOUR gameplan to change YOU is looking like. I know that for me, the HD guy, it is VERY hard to get motivated anymore to do anything nice for my wife, since she continues to be LD no matter what I do. In order for a marriage top work, the needs of both spouses must eventually be met at the same time. It almost seems to me that many LD women basically dismiss sex as not really being a necessary part of a great marriage.
