NG: I'm all for the "show your love every day" club. I was SO negative yesterday because I feel it is forced upon me. Apparently, I screwed up, as my W woke me up at 3am and said, "You know you went through Valentines Day without once telling me that you loved me?" She was right. I normally tell her "I love you" at least once a day. I must have suppressed it, because of the whole "forced" issue. I felt bad at first, and then I just wanted to say to her, "Did you know that you went through Valentines Day without once touching my penis? As a matter of fact, did you know that, so far, you've gone through all of 2005 without once touching my penis?" But I didn't.

I should feel bad, I guess. She bought me a card from her, and one from our DD3, a book about getting "romance" back on track, and actually made an effort to touch me. Meanwhile, I did basically nothing. Oh, I made her a salad for dinner, but little else. Yeah, I bought her tulips Saturday. And I sent her an African Violet about two weeks ago. But nada on V-day.

So why is it that I don't feel particularly bad?

Hairdog