I've sure changed my tune about Valentine's Day. Although I heard the story about a man named Valentine and that was why this day was "created", I still think that it is in some ways another holiday made up my florists, candy, and greeting card companies.
It is good to take a day to tell people you love them. But wouldn't it be just a good to surprise those we love and do that throughout the year.
In defense of men. I think it puts WAY to much pressure on them to come up with the right romantic card, gift, and of course the sex has to be wild and perfect. All because this is supposed to be a special day of love.
Don't get me wrong, I am the biggest enjoyer of romance that would ever roam the earth. But I've put way to much pressure (in my mind) on my H to come up with creative ways of romance and mush...and I'm usually too full of exotic expensive food to give him anything that he'd enjoy in the way of sex...
I'd rather skip all the "stuff" and just have a husband who was happy with me, his sex life and his life with me.
