quote: ----------------- ell, this a.m. I woke up to a beautiful flower arrangement, card and box of chocolates. It was a wonderful way to start my V-Day....then H tells me before he goes to work that he "spent $50.00 on those flowers, I better damn well get something tonight".
This is why I feel pressured. Now I feel like throwing everything away and being in my ugly flannel pjs when he comes home with my hair up in curlers. -----------------
Write your husband a check for $50 and stick it in an envelope along with a note that says something like; "I am no one's whore, and even if I was, I couldn't be had for 50 bucks. I will be glad to make love to you as your wife. I am never willing to make love to you as your whore."
Leave the flowers and gift on the table along with your note.
When he comes home, then the two of you can discuss how you would like to spend the evening.
Don't let this get past you. Deal with it now.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
